martes, 16 de enero de 2024

you are not here to change anyone

You might influence them, but is they don't want to change they will not.

They will still try to control you by saying hurtful things such as , para que te quiero or pretending that nothing happened after they said something hurtful or not apologizing for what they have said, come on, they are adults, they know what they are doing. If they want to say hurtful things they will say them, you cannot control what they will say, but you can control how you will react what they are saying. Nagging about doing housework after sleeping all weekend and doing what they pleased. That is really bad. If someone really wants to change they will change without you forcing that change. You tell them once, twice maybe, but is they are not conscious after that by themselves it just means they are not that kind of people.